Although work on this website began only in late November 2000, it would not be too much of an exaggeration for me to say that the site was born at least 20 years ago. I do not remember the exact date, nor the exact time. The name of tha parish has eroded from my limited memory, but I do remember it was near our old house in Quezon City, Philippines. What I do remember, however, was being scandalized by the giant crucifix hanging above the church altar. I was probably less than 4 years old at the time, but I knew enough of the world to know that a statue of a bearded, bloodied man hanging nailed to a cross was quite out of the ordinary. Like the inquisitive preschooler I was, I nagged my mother to tell me why this man was hanging on the cross. Because He loves us, my mother explained. The rest of that "why mommy" conversation is lost in time, but I'll never forget those words, "Because He loves us".
Since then I went off to school like a typical Filipino-Chinese Catholic youth of the
time. School for me was Xavier School, a Jesuit institution founded in 1956 by
Missionaries who had been expelled by MaoZedong's new communist government. While I
learned a lot about God and His Church in Xavier, it was still through the home instruction
of my mother and father that I had learned to look at God as One who loves us. Still, the
question that nagged me was "Why?". Why did Jesus have to die for us? If He did it out
of love, then why doesn't He just forgive everyone? I guess one difference between
myself and other young people of my age was that I actually took these questions
seriously. My parents couldn't answer them, and neither could my teachers in school. It
was this situation, plus the fact that I could see how Church teachings were
being bent and even ignored, and the irreverence I saw during mass, that led me to doubt
the Faith. I did not doubt that God exists, but I doubted the methods man used to reach
Him. I did not doubt Christianity, but I doubted if it was applicable in today's world.
I did not know it then, but I was starting to lead towards agnosticism.
And I was only 12 years old.
God had other plans for me though. He loves me that much.
The year was 1987. Intellectually I was at the top of the
world. I was later to win a medal for representing my school in a national science
contest. My social circle was expanding, as I had made friends that year with some new
(I had been transferred to a new homeroom) classmates who would be my confidants up to
now, long after our high school graduation. However, I will forever remember that year
as the year I first met the man who would lead me back to that bloodied, suffering Christ
I had met so many years before. That man was Saint Francis of Assisi.
I had heard of him before. My mother had bought an old Marvel Comic entiled "Francis:
Brother of the Universe". She had an old tape of a Francis movie starring Bradford
Dillman and Dolores Hart (who later became a nun!). I knew him, but I didn't know
him. That was to change when I was given a small book of saints written by Fr. Lovasik
for my birthday. A friend had given it to me, knowing that I had a religous streak. No
one knew about my doubts. No one mortal, that is.
Reading that book opened a whole new world for me. I then knew what Saint Ignatius of
Loyola felt when he read his Life of Saints for the first time. "If these people could
do it," he must have thought, "why can't I?" I then searched for that old comic book
and that old movie. I absorbed Francis into my being. It was Francis and other saints,
that convinced me that Christianity was livable. Not only that it could be lived, but
that it was the only way to be happy. From reading his life I also learned that
man is predestined by God to a higher purpose but it is up to man to choose whether or
not he wants to follow God's path. I was started back on the right track.
Unfortunately, as with many young lads entering adolescence, I entered a phase of, and I
quote Boris of the movie Goldeneye, "I am invincible!" I thought that I got it
right and everyone else but Francis got it wrong. I began to think that this world was
evil, and that the spirit was good. As Pope Innocent III feared, Francis, although
sincere, may have been leading ignorant people like me to what I later learned was
Manicheanism. Also, like a young pre-convert Augustine, I became a "know-it-all". I was
a self-righteous bigot who looked down on others, yet felt self-pity for not being
popular. Like a young Augustine, I prayed for grace, yet was not ready to receive it.
I felt at the time the need to be as detached from the material world as Francis was, but
I kept procrastinating.
It was with that attitude that I entered high school, and it was in high school that two
things happened that shaped me more. One was my first exposure to anti-catholic
evangelical "Christianity". I was amazed by the sheer audacity of arguments presented
to me. I was shocked at the ignorance Filipino Catholics when it came to the Faith, and
dismayed at how easily they were swayed. The second was a so-called "apparition" of Mary in
1993 at an obscure mountain town in the northern Philippines. Now, let me go on record
on saying that I am not against Marian apparitions. However, I went against this one.
What irritated me was that people were using this "apparition" to make money. Later on,
when the local bishop condemned it as a fake due to doctrinal errors in the "messages",
people defied the bishop's authority and still went on believing it. Anti-catholics
then used these fake "messages" to condemn Catholicism even further. I must admit that I
even started to downplay Mary's role in salvation a bit. It was then, I
believe, that I made up my mind to combat heresy and restore orthodoxy (what little I
understood of it, that is) in my own little
way. By this time I had decided to go into medicine in the University of the Philippines
which is a secular university. It was there that I was exposed to modernism and even
more anti-catholicism. It wasn't enough to show them lives of saints anymore. I needed
help, and thank God, I found it.
I heard Scott Hahn for the first time.